it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
Indeed. Also very important to be able to read your partner’s body language. You can usually tell if someone isn’t 100% into something just from how they move, facial expression, where they look etc. Pay attention! And if they look uncomfortable, check in. If they say they’re OK, but then you feel uneasy, it’s also OK to stop, cuddle, and talk.
Judy Foreman, author of A Nation in Pain: Healing our Biggest Health Problem, looks at the prevalence of chronic pain and how we treat it differently in men and women. (via oupacademic)
I’m horrified but not astonished.
So with a man it’s like, “Aw, poor sweet baby, of course you’re in pain—here’s something for that.” And for a woman it’s, “No, but here’s something so you stop complaining about it.”
Not like women know ANYTHING about pain. Jesus. smh
YEAH. SO ASTONISHING.
I DON’T THINK YOU UNDERSTAND
THIS MAN HAS BEEN A THIEF HIS WHOLE LIFE
BUT HE JUST BOUGHT HER SOMETHING
SOMETHING REALLY IMPORTANT TO HER
SWEET BABIESIDIDN’T UNDERSTAND, THANK YOU SO MUCH
Look at his eyes.
this is heartbreaking
Oh, so women can’t dress how they want because men can’t control their sexual urges? When dogs can’t control their sexual urges, we cut off their balls.
I think I’m onto something here.
imagine if one day you do something weird in public and log onto tumblr later in the day to see a picture of it going around with 20k notes
that would indeed be shocking as its an amazing invasion of privacy pls remember to not post photos of ppl without permission